Why puberty must be taken care of well in a growing children with right guidance and counseling?

Puberty works differently for every child. It also works differently in male and female child.

During puberty every day hormonal imbalances will make a child to think differently as per their mood. Because mood swings are hard to handle during puberty age and also during Menopause age in both the genders. Yes as puberty is there in men and women both Menopause is also there in men and women both. But it happens in different ages and its also named differently in men. Male menopause is called as Andropause.

If a child is not counselled well during puberty it will damage its entire life later on. Its the responsibility of the child to take the child through proper counselling as they grow. Parents must bring their child into conversation keeping an open mind. In case they can't do it the chile must be taken to an experienced counselor for general counselling. Which can make a huge difference in one's life.

Weight gain, changes in physical body, irregular mood swings, feeling uncomfortable to accept their own self as their body shape changes in different area of the body, feeling shy to express themselves, feeling attracted to opposite gender/or same gender/ or both the genders, feeling difficult to deal with emotions, unexplainable thoughts/ emotions/ feelings etc can make a child to get into depression as it may feel helpless and hopeless when its not addressed well.

Body weight will be different for male and female. Early puberty can make a female obese, or a say late puberty can make a male child obese, it can be visa versa sometimes. Can't say how a child's body will react or respond to its process.

Its completely as per how the child is brought up in the family. How emotionally safe its feeling in its body during its upbringing. It is dependent on those factors.

During this age the child will be influenced by different factors outside the house. It seeks for appreciations coming from family but when its not given then the child will go out in search of the same. Here the wrong company will influence wrongly. They will get into risk taking activities like smoking, alcohol, fast riding or driving, showing up to be bold in life where they think when friend are applauding them it means its right for them. They don't even understand its just a small time pleasure they are living with where people are taking them to a unhealthy path as such people who are encouraging them to do unhealthy things are also seeking for the same and doing the same mistakes.

Right counselling at the right time can make a child to make right choices and to take right decisions for themselves.

Where parents, teachers and people around can't help such children experienced counselling can make their life a better one.

This is the age where a child is getting into adulthood and one mistake of decision making can ruin the child's life completely. Whereas one decision of a parent to take them through proper counselling process will make the child's life a better one.

Its in your hands dear parents. What you are giving to your child a better future or the same old life of yours what has not served you and will never serve your child too in future.

One small decision taken by a parent can bring a huge change in their children's life. Choice is yours. I am sharing this after watching the changes in those children who habe taken sessions of counseling at the right time and have changed their life completely after finding the solutions for their life issues.

With Gratitude and Regards,
Guru Ma Viejna.